Friday, January 29, 2010

Getting Hurt

I get tired of hearing people say they’re scared of getting hurt and want to avoid it. Reality check- you will ALWAYS get hurt. No matter what. But you are in control, you choose how you get hurt. If you do it you could get hurt, if you don’t you could get hurt because you didn’t. People are scared that they’ll get hurt when they’re in a relationship because they have in the past. True, but that’s the risk you take and if you don’t you’re still going to get hurt- playing it safe leads to hurt- regret, wonder, and loneliness. Even if it’s not anything to do with such, you will always get hurt but you are choosing how. Not that you are choosing to get hurt, that is inevitable and something you’ll have to move past, but that the situations you put yourself in determine the kinds of hurt possible. You will get hurt. But you decide- that’s what life is. So now that you know you can make decisions based on the good that could come from it and not something you can never avoid.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

God and your Nervous System

Your nerves send signals to your brain. When they continuously send the same message the brain basically says “ya I got it I know” and starts to ignore it. Example; you can always feel your clothes when you first put them on- like being itchy. But later after awhile you don’t feel it anymore. Or being somewhere with a bad smell that you “get used to” after awhile. Today I applied this thought to God. A lot of the time I hear people talking about how they are looking for God or don’t have the same spiritual high they used to (and I have had my fair share of this). Maybe it’s because they have let things go stale. Their relationship with God is continuously the same so it’s hard to feel or recognize God in their life. God might be speaking in their ear but because it’s become common they don’t hear it anymore. Maybe that’s why when people do soul-searching and stuff they find God. At church camps people have spiritual highs and it’s probably because it’s different than their usual routine. I think we need to mix it up in life and not be scared of finding God at another church, activity, or spiritual practice. Attending different churches once in awhile can keep you spiritually fed and is not betrayal of your congregation. There are things I usually hesitate to do when they are knew but it’s worth trying once to see what I get out of it and at the very least learn what doesn’t work for me. I get bored with eating the same cereal everyday, why wouldn’t people become numb to God? It’s much more complex than cereal lol.

Ideas for mixing it up:

Walk a labyrinth

Go to a different church service

Take a nature walk

Journal

Meditate

Pray

Take a class

Read the bible

Watch youtube

Make art; paint, collage, etc.

Contemplate a song

Listen to a sermon online

Watch a different tv show or documentary

Go to a retreat

Volunteer

Fast

Practice lent

Celebrate a different holiday

Join a discussion group

Engage an interesting spiritual person you admire